A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another. – John 13:34-35
If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be My disciples. – John 15:7-8
My love for my brothers and sisters in Christ will only go as far as my love for Christ. He is to be my first love and it is from my love for Christ that my love for others, particularly my brothers and sisters in Christ flows. One of the true measures of our love for Him is our love for one another. I greatly encourage you to ask your Father in heaven to empower you to love more and more. Earnestly pray that He would make you increase and abound in love for Him, for one another, for all to the praise of His glory.
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love. By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. – 1 John 4:7-11
Below is a partial list of the One Another’s found throughout Scripture. These are Christ’s commands that all work together in moving His people towards loving one another as He loves us. By faith and out of love for Christ Jesus we are to obey these commands so that we are being obedient to the new commandment given to us in John 13:34; 15:12; and 15:17. To be living Christ is to be loving. If I am growing in Christ-likeness then I am growing in love. To be conformed more and more into the likeness of Christ means I am being conformed to love more and more like Him.
- Be at peace with one another. Mk. 9:50
- Wash one another’s feet. Jn. 13:14
- Love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. Jn. 13:34
- Love one another with brotherly affection. Rom. 12:10
- Outdo one another in showing honor. Rom. 12:10
- Live in harmony with one another. Rom. 12:16
- Welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you. Rom. 15:7
- Greet one another with a holy kiss. Rom 16:16, 2 Cor. 13:12
- Wait for one another. 1 Cor. 11:33
- Comfort one another, agree with one another. 2 Co. 13:11
- Through love serve one another. Gal. 5:13
- Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. Gal. 6:2
- Bear with one another in love. Eph. 4:2
- Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another. Eph. 4:32
- Address one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs. Eph. 5:19
- Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Eph. 5:21
- Do not lie to one another. Col. 3:9
- Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other. Col. 3:13
- Teach and admonish one another in all wisdom. Col. 3:16
- Encourage one another. 1 Th. 4:18 , Heb. 10:25
- Encourage one another and build one another up. 1 Th. 5:11
- Always seek to do good to one another. 1 Th. 5:15
- Exhort one another every day. Heb. 3:13
- Stir up one another to love and good works. Heb. 10:24
- Do not speak evil against one another. Jas. 4:11
- Do not grumble against one another. Jas. 5:9
- Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another. Jas. 5:16
- Love one another earnestly from a pure heart. 1 Pe. 1:22
- Keep loving one another earnestly. 1 Pe. 4:8
- Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. 1 Pe. 4:9
- Serve one another. 1 Pe. 4:10
- Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another. 1 Pe. 5:5
- Greet one another with the kiss of love. 1 Pe. 5:14
- Love one another. 1 Jn. 3:11, 1 Jn. 3:23, 1 Jn. 4:7, 1 Jn. 4:12, 2 Jn. 1:5